About the Ethical Non-Monogamous Book Club

The ENM Book Club is not about promoting any one lifestyle—it’s about learning, reflection, and connection.
Members read selected books and articles that explore relationship diversity, emotional honesty, and personal growth. Each meeting provides an opportunity to discuss key themes, share perspectives, and explore how these ideas relate to individual experiences.

Facilitated by a licensed therapist, discussions are guided by empathy, respect, and curiosity—encouraging participants to engage in thoughtful, nonjudgmental exploration of non-traditional relationship structures.

Love is not one-size-fits-all. Here, we celebrate the courage to define it authentically.

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What to Expect

Each session of the ENM Book Club includes:

• Guided discussions around selected readings on non-monogamy, communication, and consent.
• A supportive environment to share experiences and insights.
• Practical takeaways for building emotional intelligence and relational awareness.
• Opportunities for self-reflection and connection with like-minded individuals.
• Resources on navigating non-monogamous relationships with care and respect.

Participants are encouraged to read the selected material before meetings, but all levels of engagement are welcome.

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Themes We Explore

Every month, the club focuses on key aspects of ethical non-monogamy and relationship diversity, including:

• Communication and consent in relationships
• Setting boundaries and managing jealousy
• Emotional honesty and self-reflection
• Attachment styles in non-traditional relationships
• Relationship structures (polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy)
• Navigating social stigma and identity
• Self-compassion, trust, and authenticity in love

Discussions are guided, open, and affirming—creating space for learning and self-discovery without judgment.

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Who This Group Is For

The Ethical Non-Monogamous Book Club welcomes:

• Individuals curious about or practicing non-monogamy
• Couples exploring alternative relationship structures
• Therapists, allies, or community members seeking a better understanding
• Anyone interested in emotional growth, communication, and love in all its forms

No prior experience with non-monogamy is required—just an open mind and willingness to learn.

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Benefits of Joining

• Connect with others in an affirming, inclusive space
• Expand understanding of love and relationship diversity
• Strengthen communication and emotional literacy
• Challenge outdated beliefs about relationships
• Develop deeper empathy for yourself and others
• Find a sense of community and shared growth

This group offers both education and connection, helping participants embrace authenticity in how they love and relate.

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Example Readings

Selections may include books such as:

• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy
• Polysecure by Jessica Fern
• Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
• Love’s Not Colorblind by Kevin A. Patterson
• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert

Each text provides a foundation for conversation, self-awareness, and community reflection.

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Related Services and Specialties

The ENM Book Club complements other affirming and relationship-focused services such as:

Together, these offerings create a supportive ecosystem for growth and connection.

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How to Join

🗓 Meetings: Monthly (check schedule for next session)
📍 Format: In-person or virtual, depending on availability
💬 Facilitator: Licensed therapist with experience in relationship and sexuality counseling

Contact Us → to learn about current readings or to register for the next session.

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Our Facilitators

Our therapists and group leaders bring compassion, open-mindedness, and expertise in diverse relationship models. They ensure that every discussion remains safe, inclusive, and rooted in emotional understanding.

Meet Our Team →